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ooli is a tool that implements the three-step blueprint of the relationship check in. Through this process, we think you'll be able to improve your communication and, by extension, your relationship.
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ooli is a tool that implements the three-step blueprint of the relationship check in. Through this process, we think you'll be able to improve your communication and, by extension, your relationship.
Get startedAll too often, we grow comfortable with our partner after being around them long enough. This familiarity can be both helpful and hurtful. The relationship check in can move you towards your partner, by giving you the opportunity to discuss what is, and is not, working.
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Scheduled check in periods occur every two weeks.
Each day, each partner will answer three (3) questions that ooli presents to them.
At the end of the check in period, partners come together and discuss each others responses.
If there are remaining issues, or desires, partners can resolve to take action to address these.
Check in frequently, and at the end of each scheduled period, review your perceived challenges and desires with your partner.
Form a habit of recognizing positive things about your partner and letting them know. Whether novel or familiar, lift them up by letting them know you thought about them today.
If you're working with a professional counselor, loop them into your scheduled check in's to improve your counseling sessions.
Your relationship comprises one of the most meaningful aspects of life, and should be a source of deep fulfillment. Maintaining a strong relationship, however, requires constant care and communication.
ooli was built by a husband and wife team who needed practical tools to help them care for their relationship and improve communication. We hope it can be of use to you as well.